Adjourning In Team Work

When reflecting on groups I have been a part of in the past, and groups I am part of now, I think that the hardest goodbyes have come from the groups with the most cohesion and trust. When I was doing my student teaching and my first special education job I worked at a small elementary school with a very small but tight-knit group of staff. There were two self-contained programs and a resource room in the building, plus Mrs. F., our school counselor/psychologist. Student study teams involved all special education staff, and when discussing how to best help children there were never conflicts over program restrictions or being unable to help serve a child because he did not “fit” one program or another. It was extremely clear that the group’s goal was to keep the child first at all times, and Mrs. F. served as a facilitator that would help us figure out how to spread out the support so no one felt overwhelmed or under-supported.

This high-performing group was hard to leave because, despite conflicts that might have arose during different issues, the group always had the same goal in mind, which helped us to always keep each other’s perspectives in mind. Every meeting was a positive experience because we knew whatever issues arose we would work through them and come out a stronger group in the end. Unfortunately we did not have a closing ritual, as I took another job over the summer and did not return. Mrs. F. retired shortly after, though we still keep in touch. I wish we could have had one opportunity to get together for a real goodbye, as many of us have gone our separate ways- though we do see each other at some special education gatherings since we work in neighboring districts.

I imagine that there will be some sadness when this group disbands at the end of this Master’s program, although I have already left one group behind, as I doubled-up on classes this summer and moved up one semester. There is one gal, Lois, in particular that I miss having discussion posts with, but we still stay connected through FaceBook and e-mail. I hope that when this course is over I will still stay in contact with some members of this Master’s group, as it has been a great experience to learn about other people through discussions, both on a professional and personal level.

Adjourning is an important process of group work because it brings closure as well as an opportunity to celebrate the group’s accomplishments. I think these celebrations and acknowledgment of relationships we have built encourage us to continue to work positively in other groups (or continue working in old groups, but with new goals) as it lets us reflect on the positive work that can be achieved through working together. It also reminds us that we are not alone in our mission of serving young children and their families to the best of our abilities.